We don’t often buy furniture for our home, but when we do we like it to last a long time.  We’ve just kitted out our daughter’s room with a new bed and bedding and thought I’d share with you what we got for her as we tried to do it as sustainably and ethically as we could.

Our daughter had been in a cot but between Christmas and New Year mastered the art of skillfully and stealthily climbing out of it in one silent manoeuvre.  Worried about potential injury, especially if she started climbing in the middle of the night, we swiftly dismantled the cot and put her mattress on the floor while we made arrangements for a new ‘big girl’ bed.

I initially thought about getting her a toddler bed, but then I thought she’d only be in it a year or two before we would need to get her a single bed.  This didn’t seem particularly sustainable or purse-friendly so I got busy scouring Gumtree and on my first search came across a beautiful secondhand single bed in a classic style for only £30.  The lady selling it was moving house and had no room for it in her new place.  Roping in a favour from a friend with  a van we picked up the bed – it had a few paint marks on it but after a quick scrub with some warm soapy water, a scouring pad and some good old bicarbonate of soda and it came up trumps!  We hope it will last at the very least until our daughter leaves home (in the very very distant future)!

uk made mattress

It came with a mattress but I feel a bit funny about secondhand mattresses (from living in too many bad furnished student flats!), so the lady came down in price for me as I left her the mattress.  I struggled to find an affordable eco-friendly mattress (John Lewis have a hemp one*, but it’s £425 – quite considerably out of our budget), so instead I went down the most ethical route I could (within our tight budget) and found that John Lewis also stock a good range of UK made mattresses, reportedly made from ‘responsibly sourced materials’, starting from £60 for a single*.  I wasn’t sure how a cheaper mattress would stand up over the years to repeated jumping up and down on by a small person so went for their £100 mattress* in the hope that it will last a long time.  I can report that it’s incredibly comfortable – so far I think it was a good choice!

ethical mattress

I found a bed guard in my local Barnados charity shop for £3.99 – they have a dedicated children’s shop near me that exclusively sells donated baby and toddler equipment, clothes, toys and everything else, and I had my pick between four bed guards!

For the duvet I wanted one that was easily washable in the washing machine, and ideally would be both eco-friendly and ethical.  I found this one* in Marks & Spencer for £29.50 – it’s made in the UK, and it’s anti-allergen filling is made from recycled plastic bottles.  It can be washed in the machine up to 50°C too, so it fitted the bill perfectly.  For chilly nights I also picked up a hand crocheted blanket on eBay for much cheapness.

We already had a load of spare pillows so didn’t need to buy any but we did need bedding – the final item we needed to finish our ethical kid’s bedroom.  We don’t have any independent department stores or textiles shops near us, so I did a quick search online and found Palmers Department Stores – a family run independent business based in Norfolk –  who were having a good sale on textiles, and were running an extra 10% off promotion that I found on their Facebook page (who needs Amazon?!).  I managed to pick up some duvet covers there – I didn’t want anything character based or overly kiddie that she’d probably grow out of in a few years, so went for something fresh and floral instead.

Our daughter absolutely adores her new “big bed” and we love her ethical kid’s bedroom.  For us the most important thing is that she is sleeping through the night in it, so we’re calling it an all-round success!  Although her bed isn’t particularly kiddie the rest of her room has her toys, books and prints on the wall,  helping to create a fun room for her that can easily be adapted as she grows.

NB: It goes without saying that this is not a sponsored post – everything featured are items we bought ourselves, however the * symbol denotes an affiliate link, meaning I get a very small percentage for any purchases you make using these links, which I put towards running costs of the blog.  Please see my disclosure policy for more information.

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